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Is the language exchange thing the best way to meet nice Chinese girls? Don't want tarts and gold diggers
11 years 35 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Gold diggers and tarts look just like the so called "Nice Girls". Appearance is not the telltale feature here. You simply have to talk to them. Common sense should bail you out.
Have fun!!
I swear that's easy But why should i teach you that?!!!!!!!!!!...........I prefer to teach you something more useful than just picking up a girl..................Like how to find a GF that will love you tuly?!!!!.....Now that's a question i would like to help you with.To answer the question in my standards that i mentioned it depends on the atmosphere you are in...If working then you might have a chance to met someone in your daily life that might have chemistry with you like having some hobbies in common then cause we all know chinese take it slow then you have to share that hobbies with her and make her feel safe with you and later one day she is the one you are calling GF.......If studying and in that case easier to find girls and trust me on one thing you will not be worried about finding a GF cause they are already hunting for that cool international students{If you were cool}.........might help or not but this is what i experienced here
When deciding on a woman to have a relationship with, I recall a story told to me by my dear old dad. He said, "Son, there will come a day when you want to find the right woman to settle down with. So let me offer you this tale as a guideline for making the right choice.
There once was a man dating 3 women and the time came where he knew he must pick one. So, as a test, he gave each $100. The first woman took the money and spent it all on shoes and clothes for herself. When the man asked her why she did this, she said, 'because you are a good man and deserve a woman who looks beautiful for you'.
Then the man gave the next woman $100. She spent half on herself and half on him. When the man asked her why she did this she said, 'because we are partners in life and everything should be equal between us.'
Then the man gave the last woman $100. She took the money and put it into the bank and then gave the bank book back to the man. When the man asked her why she did this she said, 'because investing in our future is the best way I can show my love for you.'
The man thought long and hard on the actions and answers of the 3 women. After much contemplation, he married the one with the biggest tits."
icnif77:
'cause, man was thinking with his 'lower' head at the time of marriage!
vman111:
That is hilarious! I was thinking your father was a wise man for picking the third women ....LOL
Most of them are only little. Just throw her over your shoulder and carry her back to your cave.
At home I bet some friends $10 that I could pick up a girl that just walked into the bar. I then walked over and threw her over my shoulder and while I walked out of the bar with her, I told her what i was doing. By the time I got outside she was laughing so hard that I had to hold her up. Ya could try that.
What's wrong with tarts, they can be nice girls, some are only rarely tarts,,long story. Where I lived in China, the streets around me were all beauty shops, most of the women in the apartments around me worked in beauty shops, massage parlours and KTVs. Maybe I had a warped experience in China? I'm starting to think most women in China do this. One day while driving my scooter I saw this girl standing outside a beauty shop, I stopped, parked my scooter walked over and picked her up, put her on my scooter and drove off. She stayed with me and never cut any of my parts off. I saw her alot after that and I still write to her. I really liked her. She's a rarely a tart. She was one of my freebie casual girls.
TedDBayer:
But I met my GF because she had a Collie and I went to play with the dog. I have a Collie at home. The woman was a cute tiny thing. She ended up asking me out.
My first girlfriend here, I met running down the street. Drunk. Twice. First time I was playing a drinking game, I lost, so I had to find a girl to join our table within a minute. I found her. Unfortunately she couldn't stay, but three nights later I was sitting drinking with some Irishmen, saw some legs, said "Wait here fellas" and charged off down the street. Had no idea it was her till she turned around. Spent the next six months with her. That was ten years ago and i've never looked back. Terrified i'm gonna see her standing there.
On the bus. Or pick her up using her hips. You can also employ the wedding lift.
Have you ever "picked up" a girl who wasn't a tart or a gold digger?
I find it easiest to bend slightly at the knees and to not over extend your back during the lift. Some times I like to take it a little further and hoist them over my shoulder or carry them in a thresh hold.
Swing down on a vine (or a rope if no vines are to be found in your city) and with your free hand, sweep her off her feet!