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Q: Can I just said that to her?

My cousin's wife came to visit my parents, when she saw me, her first question to me is how much money I make and when I will find a boyfriend. Made me very uncomfortable, I then said what she said wasn't polite and that she shouldn't ask me how much I make and what if I make little salary or just got fired? I told her what if someone's bf just died or maybe thats someone's privacy or maybe someone just doesn't want to get married.

I told her to be more respectable and considerable.

She kept saying and tried to convince me that she's right.

My mom got mad at me and blamed on me for being impolite to the relative.

Should I say those words to the cousin's wife? Ooops

You know those relatives are just so annoying.

6 years 12 weeks ago in  General  - China

 
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The only reason to live in the city is money and sex...country folks know that

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You we’re right to tell her to mind her own business!

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Tell her to mind her own business.

But if you don't mind stirring sh*t up you could learn to fk with people's minds.

example:  when she starts asking about your bf, learn how to tell her you are really just into girls and you were wondering if she was up for a round?  

It's kinda hard to explain, but as you develop the skill you will get better at it.  Just feed people lines of bullshit to shock their simple mentalities.  It can be fun sometimes.

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Quite right, you should have said you would tell her after she told you how much her husband gives her, and then what ever she said you just triple the figure you give her and say how sorry you are that she has to make do with so little. I might not always agree with you but this time you are quite right.

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What diver said, unfortunately (as you can attest to) 'some people' have zero upbringing and you should learn to give 'fuck off answers'. I once told a nosey taxi driver that the student traveling with me was my mother. 

I love it when fluffers try to make excuses for the rudeness of mainlanders. Someone who is just inquisitive wouldn't persist after you told them it was rude. Think back to the many times taxi drivers have demanded to know the relationship between you and the female with you (I don't know if it's the same with foreign women) was it curiousity or something more sinister like to judge her and give her a lecture about being with foreign men or to interrogate her about why she didn't choose a mainlander 

 

Ignoring the wrongs and rudeness of individuals because of their race or nationality doesn't make you an elite 'anti-racist' it makes you fucking racist against the very people you're excusing

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Treat questions like that and the people who ask them with the contempt they deserve. Just laugh at such unsophisticated bumpkins (xiangbalao tubaozi).

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The only reason to live in the city is money and sex...country folks know that

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salt or a red pen

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I have no problem with telling you how much money I get per month.... even if the question is not asked, we all know the question is there....  just get it over with. Same as the "sex" thing...  OH the good old days.

 

I HAVE NO SECRETS    none.....  I have no STRESS    none...  OPEN BOOK.   

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