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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookWhy do u ask question like this? U r not married, and not likely to marry a Chinese, too early to worry about such thing.
Act the way you find it comforting...don't act the way they want you to act because they are gona expect you to act like a traditional Chinese guy with gifts in your both hands for every individual of the family member and a big smile on your face but the moment they find a small tiny mini error in your gifts, all the favors goes in the gutter!!!
I say, " Take a hike buddy and leave what you can't do!"
dosent matter i speak english and all my in laws only speak chinese so just smile except my mother in law she speaks english an i just tell her to shut the f up
If you want your life to be happy find every possible way to show them you care as much for them as you do your partner. Give gifts when appropriate, show you care about theiur health and you think about their welfare often. Do not disagree with them especially if its not a battle worth winning even if it is they are never wrong they simply can't be wrong. get used to it and push your ego into your stomach and try to see things their way. learn about the culture, if you don't good luck its a crap shoot as to how long you can last without them beginning a lifetime of hatred toward you and every life decision you make.