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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Is it possible for a man 2stay in GZ for a month or 2 w/o getting involve with any Local girl?
Recently a few of us (male friends) had a debate over what other people said : you can find all sort or your sort of girl in China, is that true or how true does it goes? It all started because a good friend of us is going to Guangzhou soon for a new post. He is mid 50, divorced. Want to hear some opinions from others..
11 years 52 weeks ago in Relationships - Guangzhou
POSSIBLE FOR YOUR FRIEND EH?????
YES I DO BELIEVE IT WILL BE VERY POSSIBLE FOR YOUR FRIEND
What the hell, of course it's possible. It takes 2 to tango.
Your 'friend' should get some will power.
Impossible. You know the local girls can't resist an old, overweight, balding has-been. He has no chance. He should just give in to the first vag he comes across.
There are mainly two kinds of Ladies in China. Those that really seek a husband to love, respect and be happy, and those who seek a man to pay her bills. Of course, there is a third group composed of those that could not care less for a laowai.
Now, it will depend you you (or your FRIEND) to be celibate while in China or not. If you wish to find a Chinese Lady, you will, just pay attention to the Red Flags showing as you meet her. And if you do not wish to meet any, then you won't, declining opportunities when they show up.
In China, as in just every other country, no one will put a gun on your head and force you into a relationship you do not want. After all, all it will take if a Lady approaches you and you are not interested, is to tell her you are married back home.
may i ask where are you from??? then i can give you a very good answer
Kayse:
I'm fr the far east but station overseas & had been an expat 4 the last 18yrs..My friend is German and is also an expat 4the last 30yrs but Guangzhou will be his first Asia post.
crimochina:
and a german does not know anything about getting sex from women? you nutjobs should do more research before making up these BS stories.
Kayse:
Oh he's not looking 4sex he's looking 4a relationship, but someone who can clean & cook & teach him Chinese where he don't have 2 pay her like a cleaning lady or a tutor..(he's a tight ass) Also with his pride, he won't want 2be seen with a girl his daughter age. That's why we bet he can't find any..but with all sort of girls out there we are not so sure.. Anyway we think we have a generation problem communicating here....
crimochina:
have you been to china? with all the divorced women running around here he can find someone for a short term relationship. in their 40s or 50s
Kayse:
Thanks! Looks like we are loosing the bet soon. Have a nice weekend.
Not sure of the question, is your friend looking for men?
The first time I was in Guangzhou was over night , 8 hours, I left a trail of bread crumbs from the airport to my hotel, the women just kept coming. In the morning I was able to escape by by jumping out my window on to a passing bus, as I'm always lucky, this was the airport express bus. I made my next flight on time.
I heard it IS possible if you do the following:
1. Grow some beans and learn to say NO.
2. Wear a chastity belt for guys. It appears your "friend" will save money having to only buy a small one. Any extra room in the device causes chaffing.
3. Think with the big head and not the little head.
4. Stop being an idiot.
Guangzhou? Where there beer flows like wine and the beautiful women instinctively flock like the salmon of Capistrano?
Your question reminds me of when Chinese people here asks if high school in the US is really like American Pie...
EdenWild:
Hi! Just a quick note... Capistrano has Swallows (the birds) not salmon (fish). No water near Capistrano! ;-}