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Q: Is it worth going back with ex-boyfriend?

9 years 5 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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The drug addict? Yes.

coineineagh:

Please get together with anyone. You can tell them how your day was, and you don't have to talk at us anymore.

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Who is "Worthy"? Is this a character from a TV soap opera?

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Sure, if that's what you want to do.  But don't ever forget that boys are bad.  Or, in the case of Chinese boys;  immature, selfish and a bit on the effeminate side.  And, I think to a man, totally against oral pleasure. 

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Huh? My exes aren't Chinese.

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Ok. So, just sentences one and two apply.

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Would this be the German guy you've mentioned on another question today? The intern you had one date with?

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The German guy,yes,he contacted me after one year. 

And my last ex who felt uncomfortable with my dressing style.

The German is arrogant and too routine but proud of my dressing style,my last ex who is younger than me,he is insecure but having the easy going personality and we talks lots.

I have been talking with both of them and firlting with my last one.

The German works in Germany and the American works in Ningbo. But both of them are not bad guys. But we had problem so we broke up. I am thinking if I should go get one back or just let them go.

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You had one date with the German guy, what is there to let go?

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You asked if you should let these guys go. That normally, to me, means that you still have feelings for them. As you only ever had one date with the German guy I wouldn't have thought you'd have developed any strong feelings for him. So nothing to let go of. 

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The drug addict? Yes.

coineineagh:

Please get together with anyone. You can tell them how your day was, and you don't have to talk at us anymore.

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You are using the website as a sounding board. You like the sound of your own voice, and don't care whether your attention seeking is positive or negative. I won't waste energy on giving advice.

Strawberry66:

Then don't,go have a cup of coffee instead.

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Is it worth losing all your self-respect?

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I don't know,one ex contacted me first and he is helpping with my CV.

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You should date the old man at your company.

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The situation seems quite clear to me.

1. German dude dumped you for whatever flimsy excuse he could think of at the time to look for greener pastures.
2. He was such a loser he couldn't get laid so sends you a wechat message...or did he?
3. What luck you just bought an ipad for skyping and now you are "flirting", as you say.

I think we all know how this story ends.

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Hey, how did my post disappear?

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Maybe cat deleted your post.

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Don't go back.

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Maybe not!!!

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If it was he who gave you the ipad then he means business..but if he just wants you back after seeing your butt on video chat from your new ipad it is just because of what I told you earlier...atleast with the better ipad your bum quality will be a little interesting..see?? he saw your bum and thinks you had a plastic surgery...surely you must go back to him if no one else is getting you laid down...even if he abuses you or is a druggist..nevertheless he has a US/European passport after all ...

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Come back to me, Vicky. I'll be in Shanghai soon. Do you want me to impregnate you? You can be my kept mistress.

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 If you Dara to.

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