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There are 2 reasons for a guy to want to marry a virgin.
First...he plans on having a mistress on the side.
Second, he feels inadequate in bed, and does not want a comparrison.
I find that Chinese girls have no clue what they are doing, but this could be becaue of culture and the men they have been with.
Nothing is better than a woman who knows what she is doing, and actually likes sex, and appreiciates getting the favor returned. It's too much work...men who like virgins need help.
of course. most man of china want his wife is virgin, but they may won't say it in public. if man looking for mis tress, that is not big deal wheather the girl is a virginity. 
kchur:
Yes they will say it in public, to me at least, a lot. Constantly. With an uncomfortable level of frequency.
Virgins is like ghosts.... you here of them but don't see them... Its not a big issue, can a man prove to you that he is a virgin?
not me, but since you're worried about it, China has many "virgin again" products,
artificial hymen kits such as Night Red, Virtuous Girl Red, and Joan of ARC Red
if you want to try one I'll help you test later, 
meeoow:
Yes you are right, my room mate is a medical student who is practicing in a hospital and assigned in OB section. a lot of girls go for stitch back their virginity LOL
I'm glad you posted this question just before lunchtime, Alva, so I conducted a small survey during lunchtime. Before they did their High-Five March back to their desk, I took my Lion King's megaphone to get their attention. I asked that everybody who thinks virginity is important would raise their hand. I think they couldn't hear me well because no one raised their hands. No way all my minions didn't think it was important.
Then came Pedro, the Mexican IT guy. "Maybe they're too shy to openly say it, Milord", he said. It made me sad, because it meant the bonding even I organized last saturday wasn't enough to create the trust so they have moar productivity.
With the megaphone, I told my minions I was disappointed but that it was ok, it meant that I wasn't the best boss, because I didn't organize enough bonding events where everybody could dance and practice their spin-o-rama highfives on tables before finishing the night drinking beer in the streets. I told my minions I would organize moar events in the future, and at that same moment i saw a whole bunch of the Chinese workers to slowly raise their hand. It made me happy because it shows they love me and they don't want me to be disappointed at them.
Almost all the single guys said it was important. The Chinese intern don't think it's important while the old Chinese secretaries think it's vital to be a virgin before getting married. It was about 40-60 in favor of "not important".
I'm glad I could be of halp!
The world changed!
People will laugh at u if u r still a virgin in college.
What happened to China? Too many foreigners live here maybe 
I'm not even there yet,, but maybe too many Chiese there is problem,, like over a billion,,,,do you know what the average inbreeding coieffient is for the Chiese population,,,maybe that why you all look the same.
I've found boys pretend not to be virgins when they are, and girls pretend to be virgins when they're not. (from what i've seen)
stop grabbing me dhearma86, i'm not like that, i'm still a virgin
fuck, fucker, fucking Admin won't let me delete my posts now the Admin can delete them for me... 
One of my Chinese guy friends told me explicitly that he would never date a girl if she wasn't a virgin. A girl friend of mine, who coincidentally is dating a foreigner and whose relationship is on the rocks at the moment, is very worried about her "market value" for Chinese men, because she's no longer a virgin.
So to answer your question, yea, Chinese guys still find it very important for their girlfriends to be 'pure', while they're free to whore around.
Sex is for 2 reasons,
1) to maintain the human race and
2) for fun and enjoyment and getting close to someone
Who would really want to get married to someone who has no sexual experience and may be tempted to wonder in the future to see what they missed? I think that everyone should have other sexual partners before marriage as a part of growing up. 'Safe sex' of course but just as it is fun to go to different countries or cities and EXPERIENCE travel or go to different restaurants and EXPERIENCE food or go to different clothes shops and EXPERIENCE different clothes why should it be such a big deal to not go out with a different partners and EXPERIENCE sex with others? How many women have never had multiple orgasms because their man doesn't know how to bring her to orgasm or just isn't well equipped to hit the G-spot? How many women consider sex to be dirty? It is the year 2011, we have all moved on and if it feels good - do it ! Get some experience, try an experienced lover and then you will know what you missed out on ....
Agreed, but don't sleep around.
Meet the right one, don't just through it away like nothing.
It's personal choice for the guys if they like virgin or experienced one and it‘s the women’s choice to stay a virgin before marriage or get more experience.
It's sick and stupid if a man says he will only marry a virgin! How can he know if he doesn't sleep with her before the wedding, and u know there r a lot re-virgins in China.
I'm from a Vietnamese family, and you don't have to be in China to see this kind of behavior. But yes, it still matters very much to boys. Guess they can't stand being 'compared' with a past lover
There are always some chinese guys care about this...
only matters to stupid imature boys,,, if you marry a virgin , what do you do the second night, get another??
"hello room service please send up another virgin,, what do you mean your all out??"
GuilinRaf:
NOW I udnerstand why those gods in the Pacific Islands are always demanding virgins to be sacrificed in the volcano! Room service!! Thanks for clearing up the mystery!
I can't say as a whole, but here are some of the things I've learned from Chinese I know:
Most teenagers are virgins. They don't lose their virginity until reaching university, when they are finally allowed to have boyfriends and girlfriends.
Some guys still find it incredibly important for their girlfriends to be virgins, and will accept nothing less.
Many girls are no longer virgins, but also simultaneously worry about their 're-sale value' once they've lost it...so a lot of the time they lose their virginity with someone they really, really care about.
Its all about the age and the experience. I would never want a virgin at this point in my life. I want experience!! I want a woman who knows what she is doing. I have no hang up to ask HOW she got her exoerience. A woman should want to experience new and exciting things. No problem for me.....lol 
Quite a few sleazy Chinese guys have told me they have slept with dozens, hundreds, or even thousands of virgins. I am....... reluctant to believe them for mathematical reasons alone.
GuilinRaf:
I would not believe them for the same reasons I did not believe my classmates tales of sexual conquest told in our high shcools locker rooms.
I just reread that question,, and it might be a big deal depending on how I take the question. I'm still a virgin in some respects and plan on staying that way. Unless I met wenna with a strapon
Their loss.
biodamon:
We have different opinions upon this topic. P.S. Does anyone know how to reply directly to comments that other people come up with?
Yea, it's still a big deal. Why else would 'fake hymens' sell so much here?
Another case of Chinese men having ego issues...
yeah,It is really popular with the opinion that a boy doesnt care about the virginity in the surface ,actually they care very much about whether their girlfriend is a virgir or not...
But inbefore they reach the university,the students will get a boyfriend/girlfriend,they will take less care of it till today,Chinese teenagers are all being a status where accepting she isnt a virgir by my guess...
so it is becoming more and more less important for a man...
I admire and respect the Chinese guys who embrace this philosophy, that they should shun women who are not virgins. All Chinese guys should follow suit, and remain true to your ancient culture. Leave all the lowly experienced girls who enjoy sex to the lower class foreigners.
I want a virgin, and I will be a virgin andenjoy the rest of my life with the one I love.
nevermind:
F*ck a lot of women. Not just one woman, ALOT of women, I have no reason to lie to you.
