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Q: What is the best places to meet quality women in China?
Well, to start off I will be going to China soon for a teaching position and I am curious about the best places to meet quality women? I recently broke up with someone who is from there and is in school out here. Due to me leaving I thought it was best to no have a long distance relationship and where I am going is a little unknown right now. I have been doing some reading on this site and the things that pop up in relationships are gold diggers, hookers, and the likes. I don't have a problem meeting women here and any of the places i have traveled to but I understand there are cultural differences. So what would be your best advice, any answer would be greatly appreciated.
11 years 29 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Welcome to China,Daniel
You can check my early post"hey I'd like to say something for Chinese women".Plenty of useful information there.Hope it helps.
Hope you have a good time in China.
JustinF:
Your other post states that it is giving advice to good people for finding good Chinese women. However, it only limits those relationship to Western (read white) males with Chinese women. By definition, this is mate selection based on race, hence your advice is racist. Racist people aren't good
maggiegirly:
You got me wrong,Ok,Not based on race.It's just happend that My husband is a white guy.All races are the same.No matter what race they are,White,black,Asian or others.
All nice guys want is ,a good woman.
Meet a girl in her work place, that way you know what kind of job she has so already you've ruled out gold digger and hooker.
Hi bdaniels,
From my experience, (My initial trip to Shanghai for more than just a few hours was for two weeks this past summer) going on six dates in my first seven days..was for the most part very positive. This is a major reason why I want to get a new job come the new year to be as close to Shanghai as possible.
Look for a good looking woman driving a BMW, you'll know she has money, and go squeegee her windshield.
I know only about those women who has quantity..in front as well as back..
It really depends on what your definition of "quality" is.
The best I can suggest is to join some social groups of a type you are interested in (running groups, art groups, camping groups, etc...) and meet some girls that way. Then you will at least know they have something in common with you.
The other way is to be introduced by people you work with or get to know as friends. "Quality" women most likely won't be in night clubs, bars or expat hangouts. As a matter of fact, most "quality" women don't go out at all unless it is with friends to dinner or shopping.
Learning the language (if you don't know it already) will certainly increase the pool of quality women for you to choose from. Good luck in your search.
1) Church social
2) A Confectionery. Confectionery chicks love malt sodas.
China is a unique situation because it is true that there's a lot of girls who are out on the lookout for foreigners simply for finincal reasons, status reasons, or visa reasons. So be carefull of that.
With that in mind, I think the best places are places where 1) you share a common interest 2) it's not a place people are going to hookup. If you like reading then a bookstore might be a good example, maybe you see a cute girl in the same section as you. Right off the bat you guys might share a common interest and you can probably rest easy knowing she didn't go to a book store to find men to take advantage of 
.
Other places might be the work place (this has huge risks though of course), school, restaurants/stores where you frequent often and see the same employee always there, sporting events/gyms.
One place I would warn you not to go if youre looking for something serious is clubs/bars in China. Not saying there arent quality women there because there are, but a high % of women who go there aren't exactly there because they want a serious long term relationship. They are either trying to take advantage of someone for personal gains or they simply want a quick fling.
Hope that helps
Look for women working in a hair salon/barbershop where there are no sinks or cutting tools. The women will be sitting around looking bored.
the very best place is a university library, students not workers in the library.
Foreign language bookstores. Almost guaranteed that women will start a conversation.
