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A white man told me that there is no virgin expats in the city of where I live. This guy sometimes got random girls talking to her in the public places and ask him for sex. So he told me it is impossible to have virgin expats here.
Also, I got a white friend who has never had a girlfriend before. But he has already lost his virginity in China because there was a girl just wanted to get laid and he did not resist, so that happened.
I do wanna know if there are virgin expats in China.
Or do you know any foreigners here can still hold back from sex until marriage?
(If you are this precious rare species, please do not hesitate to drop me a line on here!)
11 years 44 weeks ago in Relationships - China
I doubt there are any virgin expat males in China. Men that come to China have enough life experience to travel, they are not little boys. If you want to meet a virgin ask matty, he has to read the directions on a condom box.
TedDBayer:
acording to matty , read: http://answers.echinacities.com/node/100008
I would say this would be rarer than a four leaf clover.
The only exception would be a nerd fresh off the plane...just finished college and got a job here. But I promise you this will not last long and once they found a girl to do the deed they will change and turn into a very different person with their new found confidence.
The real question is why are you looking for a virgin foreigner?
nevermind:
Yeah, I always thought some guys like that were pathetic. No need to be an asshole to some naive young woman just because suddenly you've discovered what sex is like. Course when they go home they never get laid again.
I dont know about other countries, but in america the average age people lose their virginity is somewhere around 17. Those late bloomers that lose it later is usually during college years. So finding virgin in the US post-college age is a rarity.
Since the youngest age (in most cases) that people move to china to live is post college age, the likelihood of finding a foreign virgin is pretty low
Those that do wait til marriage usually are doing it for religious reasons, and for the most part, they arent the type to move to china. If they are the type to move to china is probably also for religious reasons, but those types often come with their spouse.
jknox00:
I would suggest that almost 100% of 17 year old boys will claim to have had sex with at least one or even 100 different girls.
All 20 year old college students will claim this.
I would suggest that it's much more common to find a young western man (25 and under) who is still a 'virgin' (if men can be called that).
Religious people. It could be said almost all westerners who travel to China are 'somewhat religious' or have a 'religious tradition' if only by family heritage and not practice.
Some are more dedicated adherents putting some effort into practicing their religion and WILL TRAVEL AND WORK IN CHINA LIKE ANYONE ELSE WOULD.
In 'Secular jobs'.
Honestly are you high?
Obviously, the OP is a virgin and looking for a virgin mate. Judging by her name, she must be religious. Why not check some churches? Thats your best bet. Without religious reasons, there is very little incentive for a foreigner to stay a virgin in China. There are just too many girls seeking the attention of foreigners here. I don't think you will find any. You are better off looking for Chinese boys.
Honestly, Lili, I don't think your odds are very good, on this one.
There are plenty of guys who wait - and do remember that 'foreigner' as you'cve used it is a word which describes people from hundreds of countries - but I'd say they are unlikely to be trawling this website looking for a partner.
Nonetheless, good luck.
Apart from religious grounds I cannot see the attraction for a man or a woman, of having a virginal partner.
If you're a man, surely, you want a partner who knows how to have fun (in the bedroom) and that you are mutually sexually compatible, even more so if you're a virgin yourself. If you're a woman well the same applies but even more so if you're a virgin as by all accounts that first time can be traumatic if not handled carefully.
I don't know anybody who has even finished high school without losing their virginity. Most my friends lost it in Junior High(guys and gals).
So the chances are slim I think, but possible.
I'm a virgin, but I'm also a girl. Good luck on finding a nice guy. I didn't even get a boyfriend while I was in China.
artdio:
I would like to friends with the both of you's, i'm a virgin male haha.
i'm a virgin . we can deflower each other
MasqueX:
Yes, I am also a.. virgin.. why not do the reasonable thing and... 3p? It is a memory to share for a life time.
TedDBayer:
it's not as much fun as it sounds, just costs twice as much.
crimochina:
ted it was for me but not something i would do again (unless i was back in santo domingo)
well crimo already admitted that he was and his best friend ted d bayer probably is too. That's what endless hours trying to get laid does to you you end up like them.
TedDBayer:
you probably have been locked up your entire life, haven't you?
crimochina:
says the boy who has to read instructions on condoms every time he self entertains.
I was a virgin when I came to China (at the age of 15).
I was far from being one when I left.
Mr_spoon:
I just realized this sounds a bit wrong:
I don't mean this in a demeaning way towards Chinese women. I truly respect them.
What I mean is that I'm awesome as hell. But you already knew that.
I know 2 foreign guys in China that are virgins. I can honestly say that even though girls chase them all the time, they have never even thought of sex.
Of course, they are only 4 years old, but Dang, they are cute! :)
there are two types of men in the world: ones who are not virgins, and ones who can't get laid.
there are two types of women in the world: girls who are not virgins, and girls who have been tricked by society and that it is better to wait until marriage. Many paranoid men try to trick women into keeping it until they get married because they are afraid they will be compared to the other men the women have been with. Some how the more male dominated a society it the more women are convinced they need to be virgins even though it is fine for men to go to prostitutes. I think it is better for everyone if everyone just gets laid. Oh but make sure you use protection.
Jnusb416:
There is a flaw in your thinking. Some people choose to not have sex, despite knowing how to practice safe sex. I know all the risks, physically and emotionally, and have chosen to abstain for the time being. That may change if I meet the right person.
there are two types of men in the world: ones who are not virgins, and ones who can't get laid.
there are two types of women in the world: girls who are not virgins, and girls who have been tricked by society and that it is better to wait until marriage. Many paranoid men try to trick women into keeping it until they get married because they are afraid they will be compared to the other men the women have been with. Some how the more male dominated a society it the more women are convinced they need to be virgins even though it is fine for men to go to prostitutes. I think it is better for everyone if everyone just gets laid. Oh but make sure you use protection.
I imagine some of those Mormons and other missionaries who get sent here on recruiting assignments make a habit of holding out.
Aside from them, it takes a fairly adventurous person to choose China for their overseas travel. This type of person is pretty likely to have already indulged in most of life's basic pleasures by that point.
There are alot of devout Muslims studying and working in China.
As a Catholic I wish I could say the same for us... lol.
You best be trolling, yo.
But seriously, check out some church groups. Doesn't necessarily dictate that everyone you chat to will actually be what you're looking for but might be a start.
I was a virgin until I came to China 18 months ago. A self-proclaimed "Traditional Chinese girl" suggested we drink some schliu wine and then damn near raped me!
Despite being shocked, I enjoyed every minute of it and over the next two weeks she could not get enough. Then she announced that I was being used as her "sexual trainer" and she only wanted to marry me if I bought a 7 million home for her in Chaoyang Park. Chinese girls are very clever at hiding their real intentions and motives.
hmm,in china ? the person who never got a chance .may be virgin ,everyone try his best
and 97 percent expate have sex in china,it can be through a love story or get a prostitute,lol
This question is really another difference between east and west. I know in America you are expected to have sex when you are younger. At about 16 years old you have peer pressure to get a girlfriend and have sex with her, just like Chinese girls who are 30 and not married have pressure to get married. Having said that, do not let all of this discourage you from dating a foreign man, we are good people.
chenhan:
The question is equal to "are there any aliens on the planet".
Post this in the dating section not the questions section for god's sake, please.
If you only want to date virgins (good luck with that btw) then you'll have to find either a religious guy, or someone really ugly.
You're problem is you want a western guy buy you don't want his western culture. Unless they're religious they're probably going to have had sex. If he's religious enough to not have sex before marriage then he's probably only going to marry someone who believes what he believes. So unless you're willing to join the church , wake up and stop being a so naive.
You shouldn't date foreigners! I don't care who thumbs this down, but you're not mentally suitable to date foreigners. You still think sex is bad and all foreigners just want sex. While that may be true for a lot of expats here, you can't say all are like that. The fact that you're not religious (correct me if I'm wrong) and don't want sex before marriage proves you're not mentally suitable to date foreigners because, surprise surprise, westerns are more open that you are.
The only foreigners I know (in the world, not China, and not your little city) who haven't had sex, are religious, and they only marry inside their church. So grow up and deal with the fact that foreigners have sex. In fact, most Chinese have sex now!!!! Go look in the countryside for a traditional Chinese guy.
:
relax, 17 weeks ago...she is probably not here now lol I login for your answer to this question, nice one!
Amonk:
I'm a 22 y/o virgin, not for religious purposes. I'm afraid to tell anyone this in China, since I've found upsetting the American stereotype does me nothing but harm.