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Q: How to handle girl drama in China?

My wife's friend has gone nuts and started talking smack about us on her weibo. Should I ignore it? Or should I point out to everyone that she's in fact an er nai and that her father went to jail for 10 years for selling heroin? This crazy woman actually called my wife's mother to complain about my wife standing her ground. 

 

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12 years 6 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Dis her, start gossip, it spreads in China, you must not loose face.

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Simply Ignore..She will be tired after sometime..

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send her pears in a white basket indecision

 

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Act like you are listening eventually she will be the one saying sorry and things like that....just listen and wait for it

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  I don't know the woman so I don't know what kind of crazy she is. There's stupid crazy and there's dangerous crazy. Stupid crazy throws shit at your car when you're driving by, dangerous crazy throws rocks. Personally I cut myself off and make distance from both kinds.

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send her a package of nuts

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post her phone number, one of us will get even for you.

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What is an er nai?

robinhood:

Could there be a valid reason for her hostility?    Let's not jump the gun.

 

Can someone translate 'talking smack'.

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  Probably meant to say 'taking'.

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