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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Any tips as to how to bring up religion with Chinese?
I don't mean to proselytize anyone, just how do you bring a conversation around to speaking about stuff other than careers and news. I'm not interested in fawning over someone's new fancy phone.
I know that some Chinese are relgious (of any faith), and it would be nice to talk about it, if just to hear what other people's views are. All the times I've brought up the subject, the conversation grinds to a halt and then people have to leave or something.
10 years 47 weeks ago in General - Other cities
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sorrel:
agreed. This is a topic i even avoid with other ex-pats. It is no-ones business but their own.
If you ever want to talk about any form of religion to anyone here it is best to know each other as much as possible first. Otherwise topics like this tend to make people feel very uncomfortable and they will be at a loss of what to say. Make people feel comfortable first and then have a try or better yet let them bring it up first and let the discusson evolve naturally.
Most times conversation went to religion (just for the cultural aspects), it stopped abruptly, mostly because the guys just did not know much about the major religions. Even fairly educated people I talked with were not aware that Christians come in various flavor (Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant and plenty of others), as Muslims (Sunni and Chiia), or Buddhist (Big Vehicle, Small Vehicle). The few times it lasted for more than a minute, it was with Chinese who lived in US for a dozen years. I think people do not get much teaching about what the major religions are about, some of the rituals and beliefs, etc.
Religions are just like politics : debating it might involve a certain degree of personnal opinion, beliefs, reflexion, culture, and an open-mind if you have any hope it gets interesting. Therefore, it's a lost cause in China.
At gunpoint. Convert, motherfucker!
Englteachted:
MissA: I think they got the sarcasm, they just don't like to be made fun of. You would be surprised how many zealots are lurking around in China.
Hulk:
englishteached, I'm a pretty hardcore Christian zealot, but I can still joke. :-P
My mothers ancestors were all but decimated because some A hole wanted them to be Christian. This will be an interesting historical point for the Chinese who don't like foreigners. Still want to talk about it?
This is one of the third rails in China. Avoid it truly -- if it even smacks of attempts at conversion, someone might report you and then you will have no end to problems. It happened with an Ossie friend of mine but then again she was a born-again something-or-other and not particularly discrete.
She got chucked out rather quickly.
When introducing myself or my country in a lesson I tell students I'm an atheist. This tends to get a bit of interest, then I go on to explain agnostic etc
Also people regularly ask me about people believing in god in my home country. I then usually laugh and tell them education is much better now.
Paul is dead one. Politics and Religion should only be discussed by mature intelligent people. And insulting someone for having a faith shows ignorance and immaturity just the same as the missionary types who go around trying to convert people. I am a firm believer in respect for one's belief.
I don't believe in bringing up religion for preaching purposes, at all.
If you know someone well enough or are just curious then you can ask.
I don't believe Expats should bring up religion with Chinese, most are not able to fully grasp or understand this issue.
If you are dating someone and considering her/him for something more, and religion is important to you then ask away.
Side note: I just noticed I'm now one of the top posters. Nice breasts really do open doors for you !!
IrvineWelsh:
I get your meaning but think you are way off by say religion should only be discussed with mature and intelligent people. What's you definition of mature and intelligent?
I think in the month of December, why not talk about Santa Claus if you really want to talk about things that doesn't exist.
it;s funny how "expats" are always talking about freedom, yet they try to impose their religion onto you. dont develop your own thoughts, let religion do the thinking for you.
Englteachted:
Listen , I understand you want to ignore the problems of your country. But telling out right lies makes you look ridiculous.
andy74rc:
Did you ever develop any thought on your own, other than what you've been allowed to?
Hulk:
Where's my gun? I need to find it. This wumao needs to be converted by the sword.