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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Chinese women make better wives?
No I'm not planning on getting married. But what if? I spent today looking at what I would have to do to get proof that I am single, Unbelievable,it could take me a month to get this done. The idea that Chinese women make better wives because they have stronger family values is an idea that needs updating. From talking to different agencies today, I've been told that a large percentage of men that get married in China, never even get to see their wives enter their home. How do you know if your girl friend is genuine? I'm sure you guys have more experience. My GF doesn't show interest in moving to the west, doesn't want tor demand things. I know she would like to travel tho. Maybe her game plan is to play hard to get. With this many men being manipulated, I may not stand a chance. Are we too trusting or are they too good at scamming? What are the danger signs besides iPad demands?
12 years 35 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Ted, you will find two kinds of women here looking to marry foreign guys: (a) the obvious kind that want a green card, a ticket overseas, a better life and then divorce after a period of time and then the Chinese ex-husband comes to join her (I see that happen); and then (b) the really great kind, usually previously married, in an abusive marriage, that wants a Western husband believing and usually rightfully thinking that she will have a better husband, a more sober husband, a faithful husband, etc. If you could find such a person when you come to China, you will have found a great soulmate. Please take your time, think with your head, and not your little brothers, as so many men do, and you will find such a person. My foreign friends here who have found such a woman have made lasting, caring, nurturing marriages.
Women are women. Ya can't say one race is a better wife than another.
I fully agree with th answer given by 981977405. The first one I met was from group "A", a total disaster in fact. Now, I took my time, met many Ladis, until I found one who do care about me, not whatever my financial status may be. We have been together for 9 months now, and each passing day is better than the previous.
Wish you take time and do look closely before deciding to make a commitment, it will pay twenty fold.
many women play coy . everytime i chat with a new girl, i let her know my plans to move back eventually, they whine about leaving their families. i say ok find a local bye.. then they quickly latch back on lieing cheating bargaining is the way of life here not being upfront and honest which sucks when dating or in a serious relationship. they never drop this pucking habit .. i could have had you already if would have just told me you would go along with my plans i spent so much pucking money on damn bar girls just to have a flimsy time and wonder did that girlgive me herpes and that damn escort 800rmb she looked nothing like the pucking photo and wanted cab fare get the puck out of my room i think she was a tranny too, 7 days in shenzhen 7 pucking days we could have been .....,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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I guess since the Dawn of Time, humanity has been searching for the "Perfect Mate". Sadly, like mercy in a bankers heart "it just aint there".
wives are not better by race, they are better by the relationship developed from the persons involved
There are some smart answers given for a pretty... idiotic question, Teddy.
Since race isn't really a deciding factor in what kind of WOMAN or man anyone will ultimately become, nobody can say any race would make a better mate, and only YOU can decide WHO, as an individual not as a race, would be good for you.
There might be issues of cultural conditioning here. Many Chinese woman still maintain traditional views of marriage, the family and home and even if they were to evolve in their way of thinking, they would receive considerably pressure from their own mothers and grandmothers. Maternal family pressure can be a very deciding force in this country.
Many Western men, at least not the generations of those present on this Board, may have never seen or never been benefitted from a traditional mother / housewive and yet somewhat in their inner psyche, this is what they seek when pursing the perfect wife.