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Q: Do Chinese women have Post-Traumatic Sex Disorder?

I have noticed something very strange...

 

Every time I get in a fight with a Chinese girl, they expect that I'll go off and have sex with another woman out of spite. Has anyone else had this experience?

 

Is it because Chinese men go off and do this whenever they get in a fight with their significant other? It's just weird. It's consistent across all relationships I've been in with Chinese women.

10 years 24 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Yes, the best pickup line in China is "I am fighting with my girl friend''.

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I asked my gf who agreed 100% but being Chinese failed to explain why...

 

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Hey that's not a bad idea!! 

 

What was the question?

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Insecurity from women  + culture of the excuse from men.

 

"We got in a fight, it's like we paused our relationship, right... RIGHT smiley"

see the mindset.

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Then you might want to stay away from my post

SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA ? indecision over 5500 views since Sept

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I've never been in a fight with a Chinese girl.  What are you doing wrong, man?

Just been unlucky?

 

Hulk:

My ex girlfriends were nuts.

 

But so am I, and that's why we were together. Birds of a feather flock together, huh?

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If I was in a fight with a chinese girl I could kick her arse.

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A former couple we used to hang out with ended this way, he failed to understand she didn't find it acceptable that he'd run to a KTV each time they had a minor disagreement. Sadly for her she didn't find out until after some years of this. 

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I have similar, it is many times as " so you go find better wife, if you not like what i did / think. " 

Lord_hanson:

Ahh, that old line, a classic with our insecure chinese wives.

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No idea, I have never been attracted to locals women, but I am attracted to Taiwanese, Hongkers females or Overseas Chineses for some reasons. Maybe Mainland women are too mannish for me, not feminine enough, or maybe their short temper is like a sign of warning for me. Don't mistake me I find them attractive, I had one night stands with many locals, I just don't find them suitable for a relationship, I don't want to endure the tantrum, the real-life Korean drama, and so on.

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  Do Chinese women have post-traumatic sex disorder? Only if you're doing it right, my man. I'm not satisfied unless the missus has trouble standing in the morning. (This is, of course, lies, we are married, we never really have sex. But I do beat her with my penis when i'm bored).

coineineagh:

None of that made any sense, and the last sentence made me laugh. I don't know why - it makes no sense.

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I suspect you have oversexed disorder.

 

Honestly dude, are you so vain that you think the world revolves around your cock?

Hulk:

I am definitely oversexed, and I am definitely a sex addict.

 

But why do Chinese girls always think that, when we get in a fight,  I'm going to run around on them and screw someone else?

10 years 23 weeks ago
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Because your a self confessed sex addict ?

 

You walked into that one .

 

 

 

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I'm not the only one who has experienced this. And I have no idea what you're talking about.. I walked into it?

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It can be.

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They just feel insecure. A fight might mean that men no longer love them and that they are not cared. With a female inferiority mindset, the men would break up and leave them and find another woman.

 

I have to say this sort of way of thinking is so deep rooted in Chinese society.

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How exactly is their behavior? That's something new to me and interesting.  Definitely, it helps to better understand Chinese people.

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