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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Do Chinese women "hedge their bets" until they have sex?
I have a few South-east Asian female friends whose mothers told them to always keep their options open by dating a few guys at once, and that all was fair until they had sex with one of them. Basically holding out as long as possible for the best possible suitor. I thought it strange life advice coming from one's mother, but who am I to judge?
Anyways, as far as your experience goes, have you seen this type of mentality with Chinese girls?
11 years 44 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Well, I don't know if the advice came from her mother, but I do know some of my wife's friends have 'boyfriends' even after marriage.
However, I am pretty sure infidelity is not a purely Chinese problem.
Good strategy................the mommy's talk sounds more like a football manager........"you can't get them all just wait for the score"..................LOL...............if that was my mom i would have been like super happy saying "i will date them all and the first sleeper is the winner"
P.S: I got too many Thumbs down................give me a break here
good mother... only problems is that daughters go one step further.. u can have many bf's and can sex with all.. and thats all fair until they are married to one of them
I think it was a individual opinion rather than universal..Every human being is different and they carry different thoughts..
bloody stupid advice, just cos you had sex with one of them dont mean you made the right choice, well the best advice a mum can give to a daughter is to choose someone who can look after you, after all we all know beauty and sex is are equal to money, money will always be money and beauty is only skin deep and wont last long and as for sex who knows your wife might stop giving you that and use it as a bargain tool
Depends on their thoughts,maybe everyone have different thought
I seem to remember that in Greece, mothers would not allow their sons to marry a girl unless and until he made her pregnant. Something to do with fertility. Females of course are always to blame for infertility, hence a large number of men in their 30s and 40s unmarried and still living with parents. There's not a single Greek male on this planet who's firing blanks!
According to their mothers, of course.