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Q: How many Chinese girls become violent when angry?

The constant fighting then making up then fighting then making up with my GF has made me stark raving mad lately.

 

But things took a new turn last night when she hit me with a glass ashtray and a beer bottle before throwing them across the room to smash into pieces.  All because I refused to let her go and play Majong at 4am after we got home from eating and drinking.

 

I have never nor will I ever hit a woman but this is something new for me so I just kicked her out of our house and told her not to come back.

 

Do any of you have experience with bat-shit crazy and sometimes violent Chinese women?

11 years 18 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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One of my nightmares in China was my last girlfriend. she was compalining all the time saying that chinese guys are not like me, that they are hard workers and in the weekends the get up early not like me. In the end of the relationship was worse started kicking me, so when she came back from job i just decided not opening the door. She slept one night in the corridor. The worst happens when we broke up and her mom came to the town to look for me. the best part is that she couldn,t find me

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Dude, I'm not Chinese and only been in China for 8 months and I have become pushy, tell people off without hesitation, jump the taxi lines.............all kinds of shit I normally do not do in my country.  One thing, I am never violet is with others physically.  That's down out disrespectful.  Once hitting is involved in a relationship then its difficult to see past the disrespect.  I have Chinese friends / ex-students tell me the bull shit their girlfriends do to them ....and my FIRST responds is ....Do you have a girl on the side...if you do ...then perhaps that's the root cause....

 

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Nope no girl on the side.

She just thinks she can do whatever she wants whenever she wants and has a shit fit when I say no sometimes.  Often when we fight she won't come home and stays at her friends house.  But as she lies to me about everything I really don't know for sure.

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Dude, I'm not Chinese and only been in China for 8 months and I have become pushy, tell people off without hesitation, jump the taxi lines.............all kinds of shit I normally do not do in my country.  One thing, I am never violet is with others physically.  That's down out disrespectful.  Once hitting is involved in a relationship then its difficult to see past the disrespect.  I have Chinese friends / ex-students tell me the bull shit their girlfriends do to them ....and my FIRST responds is ....Do you have a girl on the side...if you do ...then perhaps that's the root cause....

 

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she can eat ufrown

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I had an ex who was very violent. Used to attack me for all kinds of petty stuff. I once had to jump out of a moving taxi because she was slapping the shit out of me. I tried so many times to be with her but it just wouldn't work. The final straw was when she attacked me and told me to move out, when I went to grab my stuff she had called the police and made it out as if I was the one who had attacked her.

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I had an ex who was very violent. Used to attack me for all kinds of petty stuff. I once had to jump out of a moving taxi because she was slapping the shit out of me. I tried so many times to be with her but it just wouldn't work. The final straw was when she attacked me and told me to move out, when I went to grab my stuff she had called the police and made it out as if I was the one who had attacked her.

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I would say approximately 47.45422 % of them will become very violent, 25.34982% will become violent but not too violent. And the rest is up for debate!! (Drunk!!

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There are cookies, bookies and too many rookies for me to sit here trying to be a hooky! Looky Looky don't call me a wooky. Touchy Touchy Feely Feely Spicy Spicy Nicey Nicey & that's what the doctor Ordered!!

 
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Everybody gets in arguements, mostly they are little ones. If a woman goes bat shit crazy, then its over. If she argues too often then its over. Its never going to get better. If a woman has an arguement with me early in a relationship, same thing, bye.

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