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Q: Is it important for Chinese guys that their girls be virgins?
...or outdated?
11 years 42 weeks ago in Relationships - China
they still think like that... but they hardly get one!
Seems to still be true. I hear stories all the time from my girlfriend about her friends' boyfriends. All of them talk about how important it is for their future wife to be a virgin. Most of them are not...
What in god`s name for? Sooner or later, you want a pro in there.
Why do you think plastic surgery to restore the hymen is so popular here ?
It is very important to a lot of men, yes. Utterly pathetic but true.
I used to know a girl in Yangshuo who offered to give me her virginity. I declined having heard she'd given it to at least three other friends of mine in the past three weeks, who must have given it back to her if she still had it.
If yes then i guess three of my Ex-Gf's will never get married after me......IF No then i guess all My GF's will get married................To make it more clear if Yes then None of them will get married if no then i guess all off them plus those three will get married..Damn i feel bad for those Three Girls i had
yeah,it is important for most Chinese guys as i hear this from almost all my friends.But it also depends,as for me,as long as i love that girl,the past is the past.
chenhan:
and it is toooooooo difficult to find a virgin in China now.zhe nian tou chu nv da zhe deng long dou zhao bu dao.
It's not hard to meet older women in China that are virgins. I did and no I didn't touch her. I won't take that away from her. I also met women that don't know affection as in kissing virgin or not.
Not really nowdays ,but before Yes they do,like 10 years ago. a virgin would be a plus lol
Still important but not the same like before, so pls do not hurt Chinese girl, it's her future ...
I am wondering how Chinese guys verify whether their future wives are virgins....a few drops of blood or shyness in bed?
Anyway, will never understand the mindset of the Chinese guys who think virginity is the first priority to marry/love someone. 
A perfect wife should be:
Delia Smith in the Kitchen
Victoria Beckham in business
and a fire breathing whore in the bedroom!
mArtiAn:
Well my wife's Victoria Beckham in the kitchen, a fire breathing whore in business, and Delia Smith in the bedroom. Does 'that' count?
