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Q: she loves me but reluctant to confess
I have dated her friend without knowing of her feelings towards me and now she has developed hatred on me, what can I do? why can't ladies just be little liberal and speak their minds? how could I guess you do love me?
11 years 37 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Send her a letter explaining all, with a pressed flower inside the envelope. If she's anyway a sentimental chick then you might get in there. Godspeed.
Tell her that you and her and your current girlfriend can go rent a room at the Hyatt and tag team them both. Do this weekly for good exercise and everybody wins!
if you are no longer with her friend, invite her to dinner. this dinner is simply to get into her good graces. say nothing of your feelings at this time. talk to about your past relationship. but say that you are search for the right woman. and say something to the effect that you are do a more thorough search and think more about the friends close to you.
next week invite her to your home or dorm and then romance her, tell her you have serious feelings for her you need her.
Spend more time with her, if you both have feelings for eachother than things will work out the more time you spend with eachother.
I know guys are usually the more aggressive ones (and that's fine). But I really dislike it when a women hides her feelings and then gets angry at you for it.
Just spend more quality time with here and see what happens. Always be careful though of a girl who starts hating you before you even start dating. It could be a long messy road.
snowballeffect:
Thing is though, he said that she hates him so spending quality time with him might not be on the cards.