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Q: Who makes for a better girlfriend? Chinese girls or girls from your country?
8 years 29 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Well, before I answer this question I'd like to know. What do YOU think?
Delphine86:
I'm from the US. And a girl. So I don't have a lot to contribute really. I am just curious what you guys thought.
From what my guy friends have said, I think American girls would be better to date. Chinese girls take care of you and trustworthy, but they tend to be a immature and unrealistic. American girls take care of themselves first (which they should, right?) and it's more of a growing together, but still having separate lives. I think that's healthier.
yongge:
American girls are fat and Chinese girls aren't. Are you fat?
Stiggs:
Fair enough, you came back and answered the question so here's my two cents...
It depends what you're looking for in the relationship. It's always going to come down to individual tastes.
Well, before I answer this question I'd like to know. What do YOU think?
Delphine86:
I'm from the US. And a girl. So I don't have a lot to contribute really. I am just curious what you guys thought.
From what my guy friends have said, I think American girls would be better to date. Chinese girls take care of you and trustworthy, but they tend to be a immature and unrealistic. American girls take care of themselves first (which they should, right?) and it's more of a growing together, but still having separate lives. I think that's healthier.
yongge:
American girls are fat and Chinese girls aren't. Are you fat?
Stiggs:
Fair enough, you came back and answered the question so here's my two cents...
It depends what you're looking for in the relationship. It's always going to come down to individual tastes.
Most definitely Chinese, at least for the girls I know.
My country. I can't stand the immaturity and lack of independence and (lack of) responsibility here!
There are good and bad women in every country just like men. It is a matter of preference to each individual. Surely you are experienced in life enough to know this.
without a doubt I prefer my local Chinese girlfriend to any I met recently in my home country, but then I never met you.... what country are you from?
Chinese girls that can't speak English so I don't have to listen to what they are talking about
They've all found ways to deeply annoy me quickly, so I'd say neither.
being married to a chinese girl can be a pain in the ass at times.
i once got up early and made a great breakfast and the wife said i was lazy and never cooked, my answer was, yesterday i clean all the fryer grease from the walls and floor and the refrigerator and the dirt from you constantly opening the damn windows, and she said so what, i said the point is, i will never f---ing cook in a dirty kitchen, never.
she constantly cooks the same food all the time with no variety.
constantly tells you to put on a coat when its not hot
never gives up trying to get me to drink hot water
never cleans the bathroom
the definition of clean for my chinese wife and myself is like comparing heaven and hell.
i really get tired of eating ginger root in every damn thing i eat.
bath towels will never be washed unless i do it myself.
rotating clothes so i dont wear the same ones all the time, not a clue what im talking about.
Lord_hanson:
Haha, the ginger. I used to like the taste of it until I came to China. They put it in almost everything. Now I hate it.
juanisaac:
I know what you mean. I had three jobs last year in Jiangsu and my gf still called me lazy. For two years I commuted 4 hours every weekend for one job. Sometimes you can't please anybody.
charliecool:
Haha same here with everything you said! Only difference is my girl is OCD clean， sometimes a good thing sometimes bad.
cub:
come on ambivalentmace thats part of being married isnt it? i though the whole part of dating spending time with a lady u will hopefully marry getting to know her and each other before u marry to see where u both need improvements [we all do] and agree to work on these issues while dating and after marriage right? Didnt u see these things about her habits [bad and good] before u married her? im just asking nothing personal ok?
ambivalentmace:
cub, the lack of water and chinese thinking on clean is something that can never be settled in a reasonable compromise, my examples are minor in comparison to how bad it really is here.
Sounds Like my MIL and SIL we had to stay with then a few days before we moved to Jiangsu Province. The kitchen was so dirty I refused to eat her food this time . I usually like it . I don't know how she can screw up cooking rice but it was so mushy I was gagging . The bathrooms were both dirty . My husband bought that place but we didn't want to live with the whole family. I think because they didn't have to pay anything they don't care if it gets trashed . We'll be visiting again and I'm telling them either they clean or they can live somewhere else and we'll live there . At this rate the whole place will have to be gutted.
Just needed to vent .
royceH:
And thank you for doing so.
Perhaps you'd be doing society a favour, that soab is brave and getting braver.
Gut them instead.
Garbo:
Thank you . I hate to see something he spent so much on get ruined. We will be in Beijing for two weeks next month . I will have a long talk with her.
let's spice up the question. if you could make your own girlfriend, which parts would be Made in China, and which parts would not?
silverbutton1:
Brazilian hooters, African bootie, Latvian face, Chinese legs, French walk and accent, Latina skin...
coineineagh:
actually, combining features from women of different cultures just gives me a mental picture of a monstrosity worthy of Frankenstein. no single woman can personify the entire range of beautiful women out there. let bored nerds with graphics programs waste their time on that one.
silverbutton1:
Might I suggest you answer your own question, or do you enjoy playing mind games with folks?
coineineagh:
i wasn't mocking your reply. it was one of those "on second thought" situations, not a mind trick.
New Zealand girls are good for healthy. They'll enthusiastically give anything a try.
Neither. I'd prefer a Filipino girl as a GF. Chinese girls look absolutely amazing. But they have a profound lack of critical thinking skills that really concerns me.
I prefer Martians. When it comes to love making, they are out of this world. 
Most chinese girls who are little prettier than the average ones tend to be unrealistic and lazy. They see guys as an atm machine so personal skills to talk to.
cub:
@thelatinodancer u can find goldiggers in any country! Are u not painting all chinese ladies with a broad brush here by saying this? It all boils down to ''homework'' finding out about a gf before u marry her even if dating her for a year or longer! Yes this means being a detective checking out how your gf character her personality her ''flaws' are before the next step of marriage! Of course im aware some women can be deceptive have 2 different sides too!
Russian ones. Would never break up with my Russian GF.
I prefer Japanese Girls they.... Japan Girls have the best Asian Porno
